When I first visited Mark, I was no stranger to counselling. Over 10 years I had been through the process of meeting, introducing, explaining, and building the groundwork into healing multiple times before. I was a bonafide veteran in receiving therapy. But was it really working? Why did I find myself going round in this loop where I had no option than to call for kelp from a professional? While it’s true that I was able to learn some helpful lessons with each counsellor I met, at the same time I was producing wildly differing degrees of success,
In mid – 2018 I found myself in one of the darkest places i’d been in for a long while, after 6 months of positive progress on my own. I’d made some great steps both personally and career – wise in the earlier part of the year, before an event brought it to a grinding halt and I found myself needing help again.
In steps Mark….
The best way I can describe my time with Mark, or more accurately the best way I can describe the way Mark works, is that he not only presents you with the doorway into feeling better about yourself, tackling the demons that are niggling away at you and aiding you to feel more at peace with who you are, but he also helps you walk through it. Then he follows you in and helps you to explore the other side.
His counselling style and the way he treated my situation was one of warmth. compassion, interest and attentiveness, At times there was humour – I tend to diffuse negative feelings about myself with a joke or two and he was right there with me. When I needed to be more serious and delve deeper into my innermost thoughts and feelings, he was right there with me too. But there was never any pressure to do either.
For me, he had ideas and techniques to try to combat almost every aspect of my problems. From my concerns about my physical appearance, confidence, self-belief, anxiety, depression, even my lacklustre sleep pattern, he was willing to be right there with me on each one, and every little concern was treated with the utmost respect and consideration. My mind was blown in one of our earlier sessions when I came in to find he’d done a considerable amount of homework on his own, just to get more up to speed with how best to deal with my issues.
Every appointment I had with Mark, I was always greeted at the door with a shake of the hand, closely followed by a freshly made cup of tea. This instant sense of ease immediately made it clear that this was a safe place where I could just relax and chat casually about what had gone on in the time since I was last there, naturally progressing into the deeper issues as our conversation dictated. That was the favourite thing about my experience – from very early on, it was clear that there was no pressure to bring anything specific to the table, there was no overbearing sense of urgency to fire through all the issues I felt I needed to cover. In fact, it almost felt like each session began as a catch up, not between counsellor and client, but as two friends.
For all this I cannot recommend Mark enough to anybody struggling with themselves, struggling with life, struggling with success, even if you are not sure whats causing the struggle. If you are willing to open up and go along with him in actively working on tackling the issue, then I promise you that you will come on leaps and bounds